Is your 2010 TG LIFE one of constant parties and nightlife, or are you content to spend your feminine hours alone, or with a partner at home? There is no correct answer – only preference. Both can be a FANTASTIC Experience!
Over the last two decades I’ve been as out as a crossdresser just about as much as anyone I know, and at certain other times, I’m reflective and a stay at home TG. I don’t see a problem with either one – I enjoy both!
As for being outgoing, I’ve have put my high heeled foot out there, from speaking at conventions, to appearing on hundreds of radio and television shows, to publishing a TG print magazine and now editing TG LIFE.
But I also love my crossdressing time that I spend with my wife at home; matter of fact, I really enjoy it! There’s a lot to be said for quiet companionship versus noisy nightclubs.
You see, I enjoy both and I have enjoyed both for several decades now. I don’t have a preference for either – quality time dressed is quality time period.
Many in the TG world are social butterflies, always out and about and living up to the words ‘Party Animal’. But many TG’s also treasure their time dressed in a more quiet, subdued atmosphere. Neither is right, nor wrong – it’s what you as a person enjoy!
So if you worry about whether being a TG means that you have to go out nightclubbing constantly, or run for political office, or have to be a constant convention attendee – don’t! Your TG LIFE can be any and all of those, or none of those – it’s up to you and what you want to do with it! Be happy with who you are and with what you can be and try as many different ways to express your femme self as possible – just be comfortable. And remember what I always say – talk to others! Whether online, or in person, communication with others just like you will make you much more sure of yourself, and make you feel more complete!
I don’t know about you but I plan to make this year my most memorable year for my femme self. Times are changing and we are being accepted as our true selves more and more everyday. Just check out this recent story TG LIFE ran about former Raytheon Missile Systems, Amanda Simpson, who just became Senior Technical Advisor to the U.S. Department of Commerce.
In this new decade, our world, the world of being a crossdresser, or transsexual, or any descriptive word we call ourselves, is finally merging into society as a whole.
Be a part of it!
And please Check Out the latest column on Relationships by TG LIFE's own Sexual Authority - Aphrodite, for some spicy fun!
As always... Get Dressed, Get Out, Be Safe and Have Fun!
Gina Lance
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